

Trying to understand sex by looking at behavior is like trying to understand love by looking at a couple’s wedding portrait. “But if you really want to understand human sexuality, behavior alone won’t get you there. For a long, long time in Western science and medicine, women’s sexuality was viewed as Men’s Sexuality Lite-basically the same but not quite as good.” The frustrating reality is we’ve been lied to-not deliberately, it’s no one’s fault, but still.

Most Important Keywords, Sentences, Quotes: Meta-Emotions: The Ultimate Sex-Positive Context.Cultural Context: A Sex-Positive Life in a Sex-Negative World.Emotional Context: Sex in a Monkey Brain.Context: And The “One Ring” (to Rule Them All) In Your Emotional Brain.The Dual Control Model: Your Sexual Personality.Underlying almost all of the questions we still have about sex is the common worry: ‘Am I normal?’ This book answers with a resounding Yes! We are all different, but we are all normal - and once we learn this, we can create for ourselves better sex and more profound pleasure than we ever thought possible.Come As You Are is divided into four major themes and a total of 9 chapters : Sex educator Dr Emily Nagoski debunks the common sexual myths that are making women (and some men!) feel inadequate between the sheets. We were told the wrong story.Ĭome As You Are reveals the true story behind female sexuality, uncovering the little-known science of what makes us tick and, more importantly, how and why. The frustrating reality is that we’ve been lied to - not deliberately, it’s no one’s fault, but still. An essential exploration of women’s sexuality that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.Īfter all the books that have been written about sex, all the blogs and TV shows and radio Q&As, how can it be that we all still have so many questions?
